Kailyn Lowry is a woman of many talents.
In addition to starring on one of TV’s most successful reality shows, Kail is a bestselling author, a podcast host, and a popular social media figure.
But we’re sure Kail considers raising three boys to be her most significant achievement.
And now, she’s offering up some important advice on how to ensure that your kids have the best possible upbringing, particularly in situations in which their parents are no longer together.
Take a look:
Queen Mom Kail is one of the most highly-regarded moms in the Teen Mom franchise.
Making It Work It hasn’t always been easy, but Kail has managed to provide a stable home environment for her three boys despite some major hurdles.
A Complex Situation Kail has three kids by three different baby daddies, which can create some major complications in her life.
Trolls Gonna Troll Haters have attacked Kail for the fact that her kids all have different fathers, but to her credit, she’s never let all that shaming get her down.
Taking a Toll We’re sure there are times when the negative comments have upset her, but she’s never let the haters stop her from connecting with her fans.
Refreshingly Candid (MTV) Instead, Kail has remained honest and forthcoming about the many challenges created by her arrangement.
Pro Tips Now, Kail is offering up some important advice for moms who also find themselves in the position of raising children with exes.
Move On “Leave the bitterness behind,” Kail recently told In Touch.
Compartmentalize “To move on from the relationship, you have to keep the ex-relationship separate from the best interest of the child and that’s the hardest part,” Kail continued.
A Difficult Subject (Getty) No doubt Kail doesn’t have the easiest time talking about the challenges of life with multiple baby daddies, but she’s never shied away from doing so.
The Author (MTV) In her memoirs, Kail has gotten candid with readers about the unique difficulties of her family life.
Painful Admission (MTV) Not only is Kail honest with her fans, she’s admirably honest with herself.
Introspection Her books often find her turning her gaze inward and arriving at difficult realizations about ways in which she’s made her own life harder.
Accepting Responsibility (Getty) In her most recent book, A Letter of Love, Kail opens up about realizing that she was partially to blame for the dissolution of her relationships.
Taking the Blame “I came to a place where I recognized and acknowledged that I am the common denominator,” she wrote.
A Difficult Truth “Do you know how hard it is to admit to yourself that you’ve been the problem all along?” she continued.
Elusive Happiness “At times, I’ve been so close to happiness that I felt like I could reach out and touch it, but none of it has been real or enough to withstand the test of time,” Lowry went on.
Powerful Stuff (MTV) Needless to say, Kail doesn’t shy away from delving deep within herself to figure out the root of her problems — and how to do better going forward.
Moving Forward “I need to learn how to kind of know my worth and what I deserve and what I need to put into a relationship in order for it to be successful,” Kail explained while speaking with In Touch at the recent launch party for her haircare line
Big Year Asked what her goals are for the year ahead, Kail kept her answer simple.
Kailyn Lowry Screen Grab “Just being the best mom that I can be,” Lowry explained.
Priorities Clearly, Kail is a woman who knows what really matters in life.
Setting an Example She may not have all the answers, and she certainly doesn’t pretend to.
Perspective But she knows what’s important and what she should focus on going forward.
Watch and Learn The Teen Mom franchise has been criticized for focusing on negative role models, but as Kail’s fans know, the show offers up a lot of positivity, as well.